Monday, October 29, 2012

Change of Plans....

As of today I was suppose to be in Las Vegas already, but we had an unexpected change of plans.  Yesturday we had the truck worked on and we went out to eat and when we got home he was SOOOO tired.  So, we opted to play it save and have him drive straight to work this morning and come get me next weekend.  So hopefully I will be Las Vegas bound next weekend.  Still lots of things to look forward too and I had a great birthday weekend. The next thing is,  Halloween, so I hope I get to see the girls dressed up and join them trick or treating.  Then November 1st is mt aunts birthday.  And, then I only have 2 weeks until I am San Diego bound with my husband for his birthday and his best friends birthday.  It is so funny that they are so similar and their birthdasys are so close together.  Damn November Scorpios..  And, then November 17th is the USC game and then the 18th is my neices Birthday, and she will be 7 this year.  And, then off to Alabama we go on the 20th.  And we will be there for 2 weeks.  So, then by the time we get back it will already be December and time to decorate the house.  And, my other neices 18th birthday.  But unfortunately this year we wont see her for her birthday cause she is away at school.  Then my brother's birthday.  And, we have no idea if and when we will get to see him again.  So, we dont know if he is coming home or if the east cost is in our future.  And, I am ready for hurricane season to be over just in case we have to go back east.  And, then my other cousins birthday on the 22nd.  Then Christmas and New Years, and the Raider game in San Diego.  And, then my sisters birthday on the 17th of January.  So much to do, and so many people to buy for, that my list of people keeps on getting longer and longer.  So I am a busy bee cause things won't calm down until the middle of January of next year.  I have so much to do and had some great ideas given to me this weekend in my recovery, oh yeah and school is in my future.  I promise to apply in the next few weeks.

Friday, October 26, 2012

Surprise

It was the best birthday ever. It was great having a lot of birthday wishes and all the love and support. And, the gifts were great too. Best part of all was that my husband sent me flowers and came home to surprise me. And I was sooooo surprised. We have been together 11 years. So the last 11 years we have always spent together for our birthdays. And then, today Friday the 26th. I went out to breakfast with my great friend Natasha. And she paid for me to get my nails done too. And then tomorrow my husband will be home because of work. And, I have a comedy show to go to in Irvine with some other great girl friends. So we wont be Vegas bound until Sunday after some of the football games. Then I might be Vegas bound until his Birthday weekend. Which we are spending in San Diego this year. We have to get back to our traditions. Then on the 17th of November we have a USC game to go too. Then the 18th is one of my nieces birthdays which should be fun. Then off to Alabama we go. To spend 2 week outs there for Thanksgiving. So by the time we come bach it will be December 1st. And, my other neices birthday. But she is away at College and wont come back until we are closer to Christmas. And, then the 8th is my brothers birthday. And we are all waiting on word, weather he will be shippec or not, and to where. So as of right now we dont know if he will be home for christmas and a trip to Vegas for his birthday or not. So a lot is riding on that, so I am just keeping all of my options open. Who knows where I will be, or what I will be doing in December. I just know one of 3 places. Either here in California or in Virginia or in Las Vegas. And, then I am also keeping my fingers crossed that my husband comes home in December and finds a good job out here too. Just currently weighing some of our options. Like lokking into refinancing our home, ans saling my car, and getting my insurance. Which is all in the proces. All, I know is my friend gave me a lot of great recommendations. So, I need to get to work and try some stuff out. So ovall I feel like things are great.

Thursday, October 25, 2012

Happy Birthday

Today has been awesome. Thanks to everyone for the birthday wishes. So, tonight I am going to have family over for some yummy food and cake. But, this year doesn't compare to last year. Last year was very dramatize and my husband was around. But this year I am still getting better and we are care free. But my husband is not around :(. But he sent me some great flowers for my birthday. And I still have things to look forward too. Like every day I find myself thanking god for so many things. Like the fact that my recover is going so well and that we are now in the home stretch. Because the plan is for husband to come home in December and hopefully find work out here. And I find myself really busy these days. Because tomorrow I am going out with a good friend for breakfast. And then Saturday going out with some great girl friends to the Irvine Improve. And then on Sunday watch the football games at home and then off to Las Vegas I go. And the plan is to stay there for 2 weeks. And then head down to San Diego for my husbands birthday. Then the following week is the USC game we are going to and my nieces birthday and then off to Alabama we go. By the time we come back from Alabama it will be December and my other nieces birthday. And then after that my brothers birthday. And then Christmas the raider game, And New Years. So much to look forward too. Ok, so so far I don't know where I will be in December I just no I am flexible to be anywhere. But there is so much to look forward to and shopping to do. I have so many people to buy stuff for. I don't even know where to begin. Love, Angela and Brandon

Monday, October 15, 2012

Unbelievable

My life right now is unbelievable and I would never wish anyone to have to endure what I am enduring currently enduring and what I have to still endure for the next couple of months. I had a great week and weekend with my hubby since we went out on a date night. But I still have some things to look forward too like my bday and then my BFFs bday celebration and going out with my good friend. And then next month there is so much starting off with my hubby bday in San Diego we have to go since we werent able to go last year. then the usc game, then my nieces bday, then a trip to Alabama to go see family for thanksgiving. And then December I have my other nieces bday and my brothers and then she will definetly come home for Christmas and so will my brother hopefully if not a trip to Virginia is in my future. And then of course the holidays and then the end of the year raider game in San Diego and then we have to start our tradition back up and host a New Years party at our house. It is always a great time having it there and anyone is invited. Ok I think that wraps up the next couple of months for me. And I have so many things to look forward too which is good. Cause if you we're to ask me I would say nothing is wrong with me but going from a helper to a helpee. so if you want to do good for me and be apart of my treatment...treat me like you always have. Cause I may have this injury and everything short term is impaired but not long term. So over all I am still the same person. And would love to be treated the same. Ok so, so far game tickets too both games are bought and so are plane tickets. Here's to trying to make the most of the next couple of months. Love, Angela and Brandon

Friday, October 5, 2012

Excitement

I'm so excited. We are in the home stretch and I have been able to survive a couple of months so I definitely will be able to service a few weeks. I have so many mixed emotions about this shitty life I am living cause it is bad and yes I sad it is shitty cause i am having to deal with a whole lot but I have to try to stay positive. Still don't know what I am going to do or where I am going to be for my birthday but the celebrating has begun, cause the next few months are full of everything, birthdays and holidays. And at the the end of this month I am going to a comedy show for my BFFs birthday. But let me start from the beginning this weekend I will see my husband and then spend a week to a week and a hall out in Vegas then come back cause I have an appointment on the 19th of this month and then the comedy show on the 27th with some of my favorite girls. And then after that I will be down in Vegas again and then off to San Diego for our traditional birthday get away for my husband and to watch some football down there and then my nieces birthday and she will be 7 this year and then our outing to Alabama for Thanksgiving and then after that who knows if this job will end at the end of November or beginning of December. All I care about is being with my husband so by the end of this month beginning of next month it doesn't matter if he is here or there cause I will be with him wherever. So that's why I am beyond excited. And I guess the reason I have to deal with this injury and why it happened to me was so that I can be where ever he is. So, as hard as this is I have to stay positive because he is my soul provider. So in construction you have to always go where the work is. And if he stayed home he would not be working as much and be home a lot more. Which is a good thing emotionally but bad financially. And, again we both have so many plans for the financial well being that we are being placed in. That at the end of the day we are both happy. Love, Angela and Brandon

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Changes

Ok so there has been a recent change of plans I am going to be Vegas bound this weekend to see my husband. And we are no longer going to Alabama this month we will have to just pay our respects next month when we go. And everything so far on my end has been going great. I've been reading and getting my exercise on every day cause I want to try to remain skinny for the holidays and my nurelogist says reading is good for my brain injury cause god knows everyone gains weight during this time of the year. I still need to decide what to do for my birthday this month. Go out somewhere or just stay home and pass it by like a usual day. I don't know I'm thinking that I may need to do something again this year and thank god that I am still here cause I know there is a reason but why I have no idea. And Brandon says his job in Vegas is going really well and thank god for it cause we/I have so many plans with that money he is making out there whenever he gets back home. And I have to thank god he even has a job cause it is really slow out there. But I still go to bed every night praying that time just flies bye or that the job ends sooner instead of later cause I am ready for him and me to be home cause being at home gives me a sense of normalicy and things have been so out of whack since August of 2011. So I need things to start turning around but I strongly believe that they eventually will. But I keep on praying sooner instead of later. Love, Angela and Brandon